This last Saturday I was a speaker at the Sacramento Entrepreneurship Academy, along with geof lambert of the California IPv6 Task Force and Dave Kovar who has a chain of martial arts studios in the Sacramento area.
When I started Tubes I went into it head first without any experience, so I was bound to do my share of spinning my wheels and making mistakes. In fact I think there’s no better or faster way to learn, but if I had known about the SEA and how great of a resource it is I would have gone through the program. How many places and people are out there to truly help you as an entrepreneur? The answer is “not very many” if you don’t already know. Trust me I know first hand that most entrepreneur resources and “help,” are most often somebody else’s business and they do want your money. The people behind SEA do it because it needs doing, and as a result entreprenuers and companies are created. Wow. This is probably the best thing you can do as an entrepreneur getting started.
I already knew geof lambert because he puts on a Tuesday Dinner once a month, and from our conversations he and I are almost completely on the same wavelength. Well… except for the fact that he thinks “blogworking” is going to be a big deal, and I am 100% certain nobody will ever give a #$%& about the word
Actually the concept holds water because it’s a dynamic that is very much alive inside of MySpace and LiveJournal, but the word definitely sucks.
I did not know Dave Kovar, and honestly my first impression was that he was a complete beefcake and that his profession gave him an excuse to beat up little kids
Well little did I know this guy really has it together, and soon enough I find myself taking notes. I never take notes! FYI they plan to change the studio name from Kovars Martial Arts, to “Satori” which is Japanese for “enlightenment.” So one thing I learned is that you’re supposed to drink enough water every day to equal half your weight in grams. I know I don’t drink enough water so I’m going to buy myself a trendy Nalgene water bottle, and I’ll probably be making trips to the can every 15 minutes.
One of Dave’s mentors is Dan Millman, who is famous for being the author of “Way of the Peaceful Warrior.” Dan has a system which Dave has adopted, and if everybody adopted it the world would be a better place. The rules are as follows:
- Accept the emotion you’re feeling
- Decide on a plan of action
- Take action
Pretty basic but the implications can be astounding. In business this is particularly smart because acting out of emotion in a situation will usually result in doing or saying something regrettable. Here’s a quote by Benjamin Franklin that Dave said that is worth relaying:
“Who is wise? He that learns from everyone. Who is powerful? He that governs his passions. Who is rich? He that is content. Who is that? Nobody.”
- Benjamin Franklin
Dave actually added some lines of his own to this: “Who is brave? He who is smart enough to be afraid but does it anyway. Who is mighty? He who has control over his emotions and can make friends with the enemy.”
One last thing that really hit home with me, is that he said people for the most part want only the best for you and eachother. In the context of public speaking and performance, if somebody isn’t really being 100%, then the audience is mostly sending them good thoughts. Of course there are times when every person is critical or mean, but most of the time most people are not. I don’t know how much truth there is to this but it’s certainly something to think about. If there happens to be only one guy rooting for you or your team, that should be enough.